Alone is Not as Lonely as Being Someone’s Secret

Being casual is fine — until it’s not anymore

Being casual is fine — until it’s not anymore.

Photo by Allef Vinicius on Unsplash

I never had to be a partner’s first priority. As an adult and single mother, I understand that adults often have to prioritize things other than romantic relationships. Self-care should be first, and children should be a primary consideration. Jobs also have to take precede…