Another aspect of this issue is that men play the “dad” card dating to seem more appealing whereas…

Another aspect of this issue is that men play the “dad” card dating to seem more appealing whereas women often have to downplay our role as mothers for the same reason. There’s a massive double standard, which is why you see men with kids in dating profiles —even if they don’t have any. 

I agree with your wife. I don’t think it’s as much as judging their…