Did You Decide Who You Were and Then Let That Define You?

Learning to flow and grow into who we’re meant to be

Learning to flow and grow into who we’re meant to be

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I’ve always known who I am with a singular certainty.

With an unerring loyalty to the definition I’d given myself, I lived my life determining all the aspects that added up to me. I feared change — and not just the external ones I could not control. I feared becoming …