Everyone's expectations influence their happiness.

This all sounds very bitter. I don't feel like you can hear what I'm communicating over your negative views of women.

Everyone's expectations influence their happiness. Not just women. As far as men being blindsided by divorce, it's not for lack of women communicating their concerns. It's for lack of men being responsive to them and then being shocked at the consequences of ignoring their partner's needs. As far as housework goes, yes, women do expect men to pull their…