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How the Fawn Response to Trauma Created a Pathological People-Pleaser

How the Fawn Response to Trauma Created a Pathological People-Pleaser

I was an expert at reading the room. I had to be.

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Crystal Jackson
Jul 27, 2023
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I was an expert at reading the room. I had to be.

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I have never in my life believed that I am perfect, but I did seem to think I needed to be perfect. I had to perform perfectly — or else. The “or else” part was an ambiguous but all-encompassing fear. Or else I wouldn’t be loved. Or else I would be rejected. Or else I…

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