How to Stop Holding Your Ground When It’s Crumbling Beneath You

Ignoring or refuting what we don’t want to accept leaves us stagnant — or worse, regressing to our detriment.

Ignoring or refuting what we don’t want to accept leaves us stagnant — or worse, regressing to our detriment.

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I was always stubborn about the worst possible things. It’s strange to think about now. Instead of holding onto my values and desires, I held onto ideas and to men who were never truly holding onto me. The ground…