I agree with so much of what you’re saying, but this comes across like all those men who speak up…

I agree with so much of what you’re saying, but this comes across like all those men who speak up to say “men, too" and “but women…”. While I agree that women can also engage in toxic behaviors, many of them stem from the same patriarchal systems that brought us toxic masculinity. The difference is that toxic masculinity is getting women raped and kille…