Personal growth may develop over time, and no one called anyone else “stupid”.

Personal growth may develop over time, and no one called anyone else “stupid”. Instead, I’m pointing out that we all have the potential for growth. In my relationship, he could have worked on his issues or agreed to go to couples’ counseling and yet didn’t. He made a choice not to put in the effort for me and chose to do so for someone else. It was alwa…