The Many Ways We Pay When We Choose Chemistry Over Compatibility

And how to shift our priorities for healthier relationships.

And how to shift our priorities for healthier relationships.

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I used to pay lip service to the idea that I was looking for certain values and characteristics in partners. All the while, I was letting attraction take the lead in my search for love. I would have said at the time that personality was as important as attracti…