Why the “Why” Doesn’t Matter When a Relationship Ends

Skip understanding for acceptance to get closure

Skip understanding for acceptance to get closure

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When someone doesn’t choose us, the “why” doesn’t matter.

We do a great deal of self-harm trying to find the answers that will help us understand their change of heart. We think we will feel better if we know. We think it will give us the closure necessary to move on.

We w…