Your comments weren't the problem.

It's strange to me that men always fall back on attractiveness. But women are saying we want to see better behavior. Attraction is just…

Your comments weren't the problem. I don't think the issue is attractiveness. I think men are hearing that instead of hearing us. If I only swipe on 1-3 guys out of 10, it's likely because of red flags in their profile, not based on looks alone. Incompatible values, no information in the profile, holding a fish, negative comments in profile, etc. It's n…