I have so many examples of men in my 81 yr life, who never "hear" me or "see" me until I've one or both feet out the door. Somehow they always THEN want me to stay. Nope. Once I decide I'm done I'm done -- and I highly recommend that approach. Otherwise they just won't believe you r your word, nor will I believe you are other than a masochist.
I have so many examples of men in my 81 yr life, who never "hear" me or "see" me until I've one or both feet out the door. Somehow they always THEN want me to stay. Nope. Once I decide I'm done I'm done -- and I highly recommend that approach. Otherwise they just won't believe you r your word, nor will I believe you are other than a masochist.
That’s my policy as well now. I won’t overstay my welcome, and I’m not going to beg anyone to see my value or treat me right.