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Thank you for your kind words!
That’s so true. The advertising is pervasive, and it’s challenging to ignore.
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Thank you for taking the time to read it!
Thank you for your kind words!
I can relate. We need renewal, and that won’t come in an Amazon box.
I’m not sure how this is relevant.
I don’t believe that it is. I believe we have a responsibility to take care of it while we’re here.
I would argue that even some of those jobs have meaning.
I agree. It was a clarifying time for many of us.
Thank you for reading it. I’ve also found that to be a benefit that comes with age.
Right?? I know I ended up paying more for “free” shipping.
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Christmas and Easter both have pagan origins and were adapted over time.
Thanks for including me! This is a great roundup, and I can’t wait to read them all.
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I love all of these but one-- romance novels.
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When the Haters Keep Threatening Me with a Good Time
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Flouting the Rules: The Freedom of the Feral Forties
The Very Opposite of Missing Out: On Being Single in Society
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I absolutely agree that talk therapy and medication have limitations, but healing trauma is…
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True Friendship Means Being Honest with Your Friend When You Don’t Like Their Partner
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I agree, but it helps to make our own decisions based on what’s best for us and not what’s dictated…
No. To this entire uneducated comment.
Agreed. I appreciate that, too. The whole modesty culture is so demanding to women.
While it won’t entirely dismantle it, it’s one step forward.
Did you just answer the title without reading the article? Maybe at least read the last paragraph.
It would be good to see it more normalized
I wish more people thought that way.
I think the commenter is very confused about what constitutes rape culture, the topic of this…
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This is the problem with AI technology.
I'm so glad. Thank you for reading it!
Thank you for your kind words! I'm so glad you enjoyed it.
It takes a lot of work to unlearn it. It's so ingrained in our society. Thank you for sharing!
That's not how equality works, but thanks for jumping in and mansplaining it even though you…
It doesn't matter if "women as a whole" don't think this way.
It's possible to learn necessary relationship skills even without the relationship.
I think it's less about it being too much work and more about those people being incompatible.
Sadly, many of them struggle to be alone.
Yes! I agree. I hope it can help the ones who are ready for change.
I actually appreciate the clarity and responses here.
Agreed. It just shows us that they aren't a good match.
Exactly. I've experienced rejection sensitivity, and I've found that the pause is invaluable.
Haha he didn't think you were old and wrinkly when he invited you to his hotel room, did he?
Yes! I've heard that one, too.
I agree. I love when people show up with respectful, thoughtful responses and not just lashing out…
It's funny that the attack often comes because they feel rejected.
Thank you for reading it. I hope it helps!
Exactly! And that's beautiful!
Right? I think they assume their tone hurts our feelings.
No one labels this as "pick me" behavior. At all. That's not what it means.
Saying something negative about women has nothing to do with a "pick me" attitude.
I'm so glad you could relate--but no longer live the "pick me" life.
I love that! Thanks for sharing it!
True, but there's something to be said for having a healthy enough relationship with ourselves to…
It's so important to cultivate a healthy, loving relationship with ourselves.
Knowing that is key to changing it.
I wish that for myself, too. But we did learn--finally. That still counts. Thanks for reading!
Absolutely! Thanks for reading!
Thank you for sharing this and for reading!
Yes! This is such a great point! Thank you for sharing it.
I'm so glad. Thanks for reading!
Thanks for reading and commenting! I appreciate it!
I'm glad you're building up evidence that you're still capable and competent.
Exactly! Sometimes, caregivers are projecting their own issues into the relationship and fail to…
I love that for you! Thank you for sharing it!
And that alignment is so important! I'm 42, but I also see this in my age group with dating.
Yes! Determining if someone has compatible values saves us all time!
I agree! Those core values are so important.
Exactly! I don't think people-pleasers always realize that even a well-intentioned lie is a…
Thank you for reading and for sharing your thoughts!
Agreed! I learned that the hard way, too.
Agreed. We just have to wait out the bad times and believe good times are ahead.
I'm glad that you've found something that helps!
I'm so glad you found something that worked for you!
I'm trying. I'm still here and moving forward.
From what I've read, the MBTI isn't a strong personality indicator, but it does have a little…
It is funny that the people who experience this see themselves as victims of injustice.
That's why it's so important for us to focus on our own behavior and choices.
I agree. It can definitely be a learning experience if we're open to viewing it that way.
I'm so glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for reading!
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I found that it's a painful decision to make, but once made, it feels right.
Agreed. I'd much rather have one happen organically or not at all!
Yes! I've learned to communicate about it when it happens and to be clear that it's a tendency I'm…
I've never actually liked my name very much, and your comment has made me love it.
The pressure is such a red flag!
You'll be ready when you're ready.
Yes! I look at how much energy I poured into staying--as if showing more and more love could ever…
There's a learning curve, but we ARE learning.
That's a much better fantasy for sure!
Sometimes, we just need the reality check.
I love that you have friends to travel with who are happy and enjoying life.
Thank you for the information!
I really want a silkie one day!
I'm not raising them for meat at all.
Many people order theirs through the postal service.
I'll have eggs of my own, and I definitely support the idea of purchasing eggs from locals who care…
It's a beautiful thing! Thank you for reading!
I love visiting new places and trying new things.
It took me a while to make friends, but I started out by making myself feel at home.
That's a lovely point of view!
It really helped me get to know people by just being out in the community.
I'm happy you found it when you needed it. Thanks so much for reading!
I'm so glad to hear it! Thank you for reading!
Thank you! I have found that, too.
I'm open to a relationship with the right partner, but I just don't seek it out or long for it.
It's a wonderful opportunity to make our lives what we want.
That's kind of you to say! Thank you so much for supporting my work!
Thank you! This has been my experience, too. My life is filled with love. It's a beautiful thing.
Exactly! I spent so many years waiting to be happy until XYZ happened. I don't do that anymore.
I love that perspective! Thank you for reading!
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That's a great idea! There are really so many benefits to it. :)
YES!!! That relationship made me sad.
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You are most welcome! Thanks for reading it.
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I'm also divorced, and I agree. I'd rather be happy single than miserable and married.
Yes! I do find that men have a tendency to take over.
Yes! It was strange how I held on for so long because of how much I loved while not feeling loved…
Thank you for reading it! I'm so glad you enjoyed it.
I'm so glad! Thank you for reading it!
I'm having the same experience.
I read an article by someone who works for Medium who said that they are now more profitable than…
I think both approaches can work.
I don't mind choosing based on attraction as the first layer of the decision, but I don't like that…
I think it works better when someone knows both people well and can see the potential match.
I'm glad it was accurate for you.
Agreed completely! I don't want to be a closed off person who doesn't fully experience life.
If the demons are me, and I'm wearing the pajamas ... it works.
Thank you! It's been a growth experience for sure, but I'm happy with being the mess that I am.
Many women are seeing that marriage doesn't benefit us in the ways that it benefits men.
Thank you! It took me a while to get here, but I'm happy.
This sounds like an ideal arrangement when you're both happy, healthy, and busy with life.
Exactly! Especially when we've done the work of maturing and healing.
I don't think long-term relationships are a thing of the past, but I agree that marriage seems…
Those last lines-- highly relatable!
I've found this to be true. Any time my friends disliked a partner there was a good reason.
I don't think I saw this clearly before going through trauma recovery myself.
It can help when everything else fails to be effective.
That's a long time to deal with someone like this.
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That doesn’t mean you’re intuition is wrong.
Agreed. But too many people value chemistry and don’t examine compatibility.
That’s a great way to look at it!
Some of us learn the hard way (it’s me, lol).
I agree. There’s magic in that sort of resonance with another person.
I believe compatibility and passion can coexist.
So many people underestimate the power of friendship.
Okay. Thanks for sharing that information.
It’s okay not to want that relationship or to have outgrown it.
Thanks for taking the time to read it!
I did EMDR therapy to address my trauma.
It just takes time. And most humans seem to have little patience (myself included).
I’ve also started with somatic poses. It feels right for this part of my journey.
Completely agreed! I’ve been there, and I am much happier single.
I think it’s beautiful to build love that way. There’s a stronger foundation for the relationship.
I agree. It’s a process. An ongoing one. We never truly arrive.
I agree, particularly with the long distance element.
Agreed. Between my hormones and my medication, it’s an uphill battle.
Exactly this! I’m tired of being preoccupied with it.
Thank you for the encouragement!
Thank you for including me here. I appreciate it!
It’s hard to maintain a relationship with someone who insists on doing this.
I had that same privilege until I developed a chronic illness.
Thanks for including me here and for sharing these stories!
It’s been life changing for me.
Exactly! It’s far easier than dealing with that emotional turmoil.
I think more women are stepping into this headspace (and heart space) and finding it peaceful.
That’s kind of you to say. Thank you for reading it!
It takes time. It took me far longer than I thought it would.
Yes, exactly. I keep the focus on my journey because it’s the only one I can tell.
Mothers are discharged before babies in the NICU.
I’m not sure how this is relevant to the poem.
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It is obnoxious and invasive! It also displays massive immaturity. Thanks for reading!
Thank you for reading! It gives me hope when I can find glimmers in the process.
Yes. Some things really are better left unsaid.
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Agreed. It’s not funny when it takes aim at others. It’s just mean.
That sounds like a healthy policy!
As far as relationship inequity goes, I agree with you.
Thanks! I really like using stronger as a metric or health rather than “lighter”.
I believe that meaningful discussion doesn’t involve playing devil’s advocate.
But that’s fun too! I love the process so much.
I think asking people to play this role is far different than when someone does it without being…
It’s possible to ask questions and discuss processes without playing devil’s advocate.
Once again: “Experts have also clarified that taking the position of devil’s advocate when we don’t…
You would think so, wouldn’t you? It’s ridiculous!
I never realized how much fun the planning process can be.
Exactly! We should be able to have full lives whether we’re single or partnered.
I’m sorry. That’s not easy timing.
It can help for a while before it becomes counterproductive.
I agree. I don’t know anyone who ever chose someone purely because of height, even if it was a…
I think it always helps to have an average, natural picture in the mix for both men and women.
I hope that’s the case. Thank you for the encouragement.
You’re making a lot of assumptions about women looking for a husband.
I’m so glad it helped. Thank you for reading!
That’s how I see it, too. Thanks so much for reading!
I can understand how that happens. I hope you find your hope again when you need it.
It’s interesting that people claim to want honesty but then don’t know what to do with it.
I’ve got to stop looking at the number and paying better attention to how I feel.
I’m glad you’ve found a strong support system and a way to help others.
I can understand that. You have to protect your boundaries. Thank you for reading!
I’m not sure how it extended beyond Catholicism, but I don’t see that any of us have benefited from…
I understand what you’re saying, but it still involves the assumption that the other person hasn’t…
It’s frustrating, and it’s not okay. Thanks for reading!
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Thank you! That’s kind of you to say. I’m glad you enjoyed it.
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Thank you! I hope you enjoy your weekend, too.
There’s just a lot to unpack here.
Self-care is healthy, not selfish.
I can relate to that. I did the same. It’s a growth process.
In my experience, avoidants are more likely to love bomb to obtain the relationship before…
I appreciate that. I hope it helps someone else going through this.
That’s entirely possible. Life can surprise us. Thanks for reading!
It’s nice to have a break from the work of it. Rest is productive too.
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It’s possible to feel disappointed without taking rejection personally.
It sounds like you protected your children from her and parented them differently.
I’m doing milkweed too. I’m so excited to get started.
I’m sorry you experienced that. It’s not okay.
That’s not at all true. It’s also not about inherent worthiness, only compatibility.
It is, but it’s equally important to acknowledge what qualifies as abuse and not to minimize it.
That’s why I’m planting indoors instead.
I’m going to start some of mine soon.
I’ve seen those! That’s such a good idea!
It would make things so much easier.
I love that so much! I’m glad you found a safe love.
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With that kind of legal entanglement, maybe you just have to leave it up to the lawyers to sort out…
I literally wrote an entire article answering this question. Did you read it?
Absolutely. I got this one a lot!
I’m so glad this found you when you needed it!
I’m so glad that’s been helpful for you!
I’d prefer not to give more personal examples.
Thank you for your kind words and for reading it!
I feel like I’ve explained my rationale in the article.
Exactly. At least I don’t feel like I’m wasting my time that way.
I’ve noticed that too. If the hairstyle or picture are dated, what else are they hiding?
Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts — and for reading!
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Thank you for including me here! I appreciate it.
Here are a few books I’ve read recently that I recommend: Maame, The Unmaking of June Farrow, and…
It’s a good theory. I can see that.
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Thank you for reading it! I wish more people were aware of this.
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That’s true, but it’s still about compatibility.
Thank you for saying so, and thanks for reading!
Sadly, there are people who just don’t learn effective communication skills.
It’s stressful to even be a bystander to that negativity.
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I also work from home and live in a small town. It seems like the best option until I try it. lol
It really doesn’t. I hate that longevity is the standard measure.
That’s kind of you to say. Thank you for reading them!
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Thanks for sharing! It can be a powerful tool.
I agree. As we develop more self-love, we tolerate less of this.
Right? This needs to be the standard.
You are most welcome! Thanks for reading it.
It’s a favorite quote of mine.
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Yes, exactly! Thank you for reading!
Thank you for reading! I appreciate your insightful comment.
I agree. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
I understand that completely. I don’t feel like anything is missing. I’m enjoying my life.
I agree. And it’s so important to do!
Exactly this! Thank you for sharing.
I’m glad the timing worked out for you.
I think that’s the best thing we can do. Everything else will fall into place.
That sounds really frustrating!
I truly feel like dating would improve if more people were self-aware and did the work to heal.
Yes, exactly. This is the goal!
Yes, exactly! That’s how I feel about it.
Thank you for contributing to the discussion!
I’m sorry you’re going through that! Hugs from here ❤️🩹
It’s great when we reach a point where we realize that they’re “too much” is a projection of their…
I don’t necessarily see people like that as leftovers.
Right? I think it’s a projection of their own insecurities, but it doesn’t represent what’s…
He recommended keeping fruit to a minimum.
You’re most welcome! It helps to know we’re not alone.
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It does seem impossible. I’m in a small town, which doesn’t help things in that regard.
That’s terrible— and possibly underreported.
Thanks for including me! I truly appreciate everything you do!
I appreciate your support! I’m just trying to do what feels right.
That’s sad. Emotional abuse is far too common and does so much harm.
It caused massive diarrhea for the rest of the night.
It’s a great service and a good supplement source of income. Thanks for reading!
It truly is. Thanks for reading!
I’m in my 40s, and that’s all relevant.
I don’t mind a groomed beard… but the mustache, the chin strap … I have questions.
I’m glad you found it when you needed it! ❤️ Thanks for reading!
Congratulations! I’m happy for you. I’m so glad to hear you waited for the right person. ❤️
You put that perfectly. Well said! Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
I feel this way about weird facial hair.
I’m glad that you’re enjoying your single state and have so many supportive friends!
It really is. Thank you for reading!
That’s a very good point! Why is one worth the time and the other isn’t?
Thank you so much! I appreciate that.
I think so, too. Until then, I like the life I’m shaping. Thank you for reading!
Thank you ☺️ and thanks for reading!
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Trauma can also make our read on situations unreliable.
Patriarchal systems hurt men too. Stigmas around men, emotions, and mental health don’t help.
It might help to read about invisible privilege.
You’re right. Thanks for the reminder!
It’s that easy. I don’t care about the hat thing unless allllll the pictures are with one.
I don’t think you speak for all men.
It’s not the same thing. This is about invisible privilege.
Progress is coming even if it makes you uncomfortable.
This isn’t outdated. Your thinking is.
I really want to put one in my neighborhood. I love them so much!
I know exactly what you mean. Being a good partner in a relationship is a skill set all its own.
Money might not secure happiness, but living without it can certainly create more stress, greater…
I can’t say I recommend the experience, honestly. Thank you for reading it.
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Agreed. Thank you for reading!
It really doesn’t. I mulch with leaves too.
Haha we have plenty of our own here!
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I adore that! Thank you for sharing it.
There’s no such thing as “woman splaining”.
I still think a good friend should be honest.
I think you underestimate the power of social norms and conditioning.
Highly recommended! Knit away. lol
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Thank you for reading it. It’s a journey. You’ll get there. Hugs until then!
Exactly! It has to make the shift to stick.
It’s a very entertaining impulse, if not exactly practical. 😂
I agree. It’s why communication is so important in relationships.
I’m so glad he had that support and that you continue to have it.
I agree. Angry people are often unhappy. I was surprised by the response, too.
Your response shows that you don’t understand feminism at all.
It’s a great idea! Then we just need an accountability friend who will hold us to it.
That’s interesting! I’ll have to check that out. Thank you!
It’s a mystery. I would suggest that societal norms are a factor.
Agreed. And many women don’t have a height preference.
It sounds like it might be time!
Yes, exactly. Thank you for reading!
It is a lot! Who can afford that?
I’m so glad you’re doing that.
Thank you for reading it and sharing your thoughts!
Swimming with sharks is on my list!
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Probably because weight is a number that doesn’t tell you anything about how someone carries it.
Why can’t someone in those fields also be eloquent with the written word?
I don’t mind overcoming obstacles, but I’d love to have less of them.
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Yes 👏🏻 The cheaters make it so much worse than it needs to be.
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Thank you! It’s off to a good start at least.
It’s pretty standard right now.
I agree. With the exception of abuse, there is no reason.
That’s an interesting opinion since all the women I know are self supporting and have never relied…
Yes to all of this!! It’s a tough way to learn, but we do get so much better from learning it!
I have many women friends, and we don’t gossip, complain, or any of that.
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Agreed. That’s exactly how I feel.
I’m glad you have friends like that in your life.
Same here. I don’t find myself attracted to them anymore. 😆
Thanks for letting me know! I’ll see if I can get that fixed.
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I’m so glad it came to you when you needed it. Hugs from here!
Feel free to contribute your own.
I can see that. How unfortunate that they cut them off from a wealth of support!
That’s well-said. It’s a significant problem that could use a solution.
Exactly! It’s certainly not a characteristic of emotionally healthy partners.
I’m glad you were able to move on.
They’re absolutely wonderful! I’m grateful we have more options now, too.
You’re welcome! I love having salad and herbs year-round. It’s very low-maintenance, too.
It’s possible. I hope it heads in that direction.
I agree. The dating culture can be toxic. It doesn’t have to be.
Friends are such an important part of our lives. But honest ones are an absolute treasure!
Thanks so much! I appreciate it. I enjoy having discussions about these ideas.
I’ve never seen an ad like that.
It’s such a common experience, isn’t it?
Absolutely! Avoid at all costs!!
I’d love to see the culture shift to encourage men to talk more openly.
It’s sad that homophobia keeps men from enjoying more fulfilling relationships.
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That may be true. Thanks for reading and contributing to this discussion!
There’s nothing about this that implies I’m sitting on a fence, thanks.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
I feel the same way. It’s so much lonelier without friends.
I’ve seen the occasional close male friendship, and it truly is beautiful.
That’s kind of you to say! Thanks for that. I’m glad you found a strong partner and appreciate her!
I used to have problems with stairs.
I’m glad you were able to get out of that situation.
We can really suffer from comparison without realizing that no one’s life is as good as it looks…
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You’re most welcome! Thanks for reading!
Hugs from here! I’ve been there,
There are people who do this habitually who have both empathy and affection — and still don’t take…
I can understand that. The confidence issue can be problematic.
I find that our standards are usually too low rather than too high.
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I agree. People say it’s a numbers game, but it’s not really.
Because women are more in danger when they’re financially dependent on men.
Thank you for taking the time to do so and for contributing your thoughts!
Every little thing isn’t abuse.
Maybe we should all lay our cards out on the table at the start. I usually do
Thank you, and thanks for reading it!
I think there’s a better understanding of abuse now.
Absolutely! Hard truths can be delivered kindly. No need for brutality.
Yes! It’s such an ugly thing to do and is absolutely abusive.
There are plenty of other things to share.
Your book probably has readers just waiting for your experiences and wisdom!
I’m so glad to hear it helped! Hugs from here!!
I had a friend help me get more organized.
I didn’t mention longevity. I mentioned happiness.
Serious relationships exist without “children, shared finances, common living.”
I think taking a break can be good regardless if we’re getting a lot of dates or none at all.
I think the initial deception is a red flag.
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I saw a meme of a woman by a river saying that she was going to stop any man from taking a picture…
Live creatures should never be a surprise pet to someone who wasn't expecting one!
Friendship is so important to our quality of life. I do feel very lucky in my friends.
Right? That's so true! Best friends stay even when boyfriends leave.
They really do! The friendships get us through all the hard things.
I'm glad you're making some progress.
Right? I'm pretty sure I've been a George Bailey for a lot of my life.
I've been looking at this year like it was awful, but there were so many incredible things that…
It can be detrimental if we don't ever start looking forward.
Yes! There are many people who say they want an equal partner who doesn't play games, but their…
I agree. Too many people are living for the what ifs of life.
When people say that now, I'm inclined to say "thank you" and move on.
Why would women take a menial job after marriage?
Exactly. Those attachment issues really are lifelong struggles.
Right? These are the guys who can't handle emotion or the hard things that happen in life.
Thank you. Partners who can't meet them just aren't compatible with me.
I agree. A larger dating pool isn't necessary. Sounds crowded, doesn't it? :)
Thanks! Right now, I'm happy being my own someone special. :)
Agreed. It definitely narrows the selection to people I would actually consider datable in terms of…
It is. But more single women are reporting happiness than married women overall.
That's what I've decided to do.
I love that! You're lucky to have found that. Thank you for reading!
Or, conversely, both parties have unhealed issues that attract them to each other.
I agree that like attracts like to a certain extent.
That last line though 🤣 You're not wrong!
Every time I'm referred to as an Elder Millennial, I feel like I should have a staff like in Lord…
Married women living longer doesn't have anything to do with happiness or life satisfaction.
If you read the full article, he maintains that "The substance of my argument that marriage is…
I think it makes me undatable to some, but you're right-- the right person won't find any of this…
I feel like it's mostly a matter of chance, opportunity, and timing to meet the people who see our…
There can be serious relationships that don't involve marriage.
I got out at the earliest possible time, believe me! It was awful.
Hugs from here! Thanks for reading
Thank you for reading it! Hugs from here.
It is one of the worst things we can do in relationships.
That title gave me chills! I'll have to check it out.
I feel like we've all done it, but have we all learned from it?
How we hold them accountable matters, but some people interpret any feedback as shaming and shut…
It does. And for many people, they are functioning in chaos because they don't realize that what…
I'm sorry that happened to you.